Personal Development & Relationships Archives - Mocha Man Style
Ask a Heifer: Dealing With a Constantly Late Girlfriend, How to Get Out of the Friend Zone, and What to do When You Don’t Want to be a Baby Daddy
Welcome to Mocha Man Style’s advice column, “Ask a Heifer.” The two sister team, Michele and Rochele, from The Gossiping Heifers radio show and podcast, answer your questions with honesty and humor. In this episode, the Heifers share advice on dealing with a constantly late girlfriend, how to get out of... Read more
Daddy’s Voice: Will Your Children Listen When You Call?
A few years ago, I took my son camping for the first time. He was 5 years old and eager to pitch a tent, roast marshmallows, and sleep in the woods. I was just as eager because it was also my first camping trip. The trip was an annual... Read more
Ask a Heifer: Long Distance Relationships, The Definition of Games, and How to Approach a Woman in a Bar
Welcome to Mocha Man Style’s Advice Column, “Ask a Heifer.” The two sister team, Michele and Rochele, from The Gossiping Heifers radio show and podcast, answer your question with honesty and humor. In this episode, the Heifers discuss long distance relationships, the definition of games, and how to approach a woman... Read more
5 Ways to Sustain Creative Inspiration
If you are in a creative field, your livelihood and reputation depend on moments of creative inspiration. Yet, inspiration remains one of the great mysteries of human existence. University of Arizona psychologist and author Dr. Victor Shamas conducted a 30-year research study of creative inspiration, which he chronicles in... Read more
Ask a Heifer: Work Romances, Online Dating, and Pros/Cons of Buying a New Car to Impress Women
Welcome to Mocha Man Style’s Advice Column, “Ask a Heifer.” The two sister team, Michele and Rochele, from The Gossiping Heifers radio show and podcast, answer your question with honesty and humor. In today’s episode, the Heifers discuss work romances, online dating, and the pros and cons of buying... Read more
3 Easy Romantic Gestures That Will Enhance Your Relationship
If you’re trying to impress a new lover or rekindle the passion in your relationship, a little romance can go a long way. Maybe you’re not naturally the most romantic person, or the idea of being romantic is a foreign concept to you, but you can take small steps... Read more
7 Tips For Dating In The New Year
A new year means a new you, and a new approach to your dating and love life. Whether you’re single and ready to get in the dating scene or you’re spending time with someone and wondering if the relationship has a real future, the following dating tips will help... Read more
How to Introduce Your New Lady to Your Friends
So, you got lucky and met the woman of your dreams. You see a bright future for the relationship and now you’re eager to introduce your new lady to your friends. But there are a few things you need to consider before making such a major move. Get to Know Each Other... Read more
Let’s Make Women and Girls a Priority
I recently spent some time in Texas providing healthy, respectful manhood training to the football team at the University of Houston. While I was there, The University of Texas released a study that found 15 percent of female undergrads at the school reported being raped during their time on... Read more
10 Tips for Overcoming the Pain of the Past
We all handle trauma and abuse differently. We may even have different definitions of what abuse is, depending on our culture and context. As men, we have a tendency to bury our feelings and hold on to trauma. This behavior can be harmful to our emotional development and well-being.... Read more