A couple of years ago, I walked into a menswear store in Houston to order some custom-made shirts and pants. The owner, who has worked in the fashion business for three decades, suggested that I get a few ties to complement my outfits. I agreed and started browsing through the collection of straight ties. The owner had something else in mind. Out to the corner of my eye, I could see that he was gathering an assortment of bow ties.
“These would look great on you,” he said as he laid the ties in front of me.
“I like these…” I said with hesitation. “…but I don’t know how to tie a bow tie.” I tried to avert my eyes, but the owner’s hearty laughter drew me back into the conversation.
“Don’t worry,” he said. “It’s as easy as tying your shoes. I’ll teach you.”
He spent the next few minutes showing me how to tie a bow tie and I spent the next hour attempting and failing. I was frustrated and upset with myself. The owner made it look so easy, but my feeble mind wasn’t comprehending. I finally gave up and asked if he had any pre-tied bow ties.
“Don’t get upset,” the owner said. “It took me a while to learn how to tie a bow tie. Keep practicing and it’ll become second nature.”
After two years of practice, it has become second nature. Now I’m confident enough to teach others how to tie a bow tie. Don’t worry, you will learn much faster than I did. I was too embarrassed to return to the store to ask for another lesson, therefore, I tried to tie the bow tie with the knowledge I retained from the first lesson.
If you want to became a bow tie master in no time, don’t follow my example. Follow these simple steps instead:
1. Place the bow tie around your neck. Adjust the tie so the right side is shorter than the left side. The end on the left will be referred to as A and the end on the right will be referred to as B.
6. Fold A back towards the chest and pinch the fold.
8. Pull on the folded parts of the bow to tighten.
10. Celebrate! You’ve successfully tied a bow tie.
If you’re still having trouble, watch this video from Ties.com. It helped me to learn fast: