How to Tie a Bow Tie - Mocha Man Style
How to Tie a Bow Tie
How to Tie a Bow Tie

A couple of years ago, I walked into a menswear store in Houston to order some custom-made shirts and pants. The owner, who has worked in the fashion business for three decades, suggested that I get a few ties to complement my outfits. I agreed and started browsing through the collection of straight ties. The owner had something else in mind. Out to the corner of my eye, I could see that he was gathering an assortment of bow ties.

“These would look great on you,” he said as he laid the ties in front of me.

“I like these…” I said with hesitation. “…but I don’t know how to tie a bow tie.” I tried to avert my eyes, but the owner’s hearty laughter drew me back into the conversation.

“Don’t worry,” he said. “It’s as easy as tying your shoes. I’ll teach you.”

He spent the next few minutes showing me how to tie a bow tie and I spent the next hour attempting and failing. I was frustrated and upset with myself. The owner made it look so easy, but my feeble mind wasn’t comprehending. I finally gave up and asked if he had any pre-tied bow ties.

“Don’t get upset,” the owner said. “It took me a while to learn how to tie a bow tie. Keep practicing and it’ll become second nature.”

After two years of practice, it has become second nature. Now I’m confident enough to teach others how to tie a bow tie. Don’t worry, you will learn much faster than I did. I was too embarrassed to return to the store to ask for another lesson, therefore, I tried to tie the bow tie with the knowledge I retained from the first lesson.

If you want to became a bow tie master in no time, don’t follow my example. Follow these simple steps instead:

1. Place the bow tie around your neck. Adjust the tie so the right side is shorter than the left side. The end on the left will be referred to as A and the end on the right will be referred to as B.

how to tie a bow tie
2. Move A to the right side, across B.

how to tie a bow tie
3. Bring A under B and up through the neck loop. Pull the tie to your desired tightness.

how to tie a bow tie
4. At the joint, fold B towards the right and then towards the left to create a bow shape.

how to tie a bow tie
5. Bring A stra­ight down over the middle of the bow shape that was made with B.

how to tie a bow tie

6. Fold A back towards the chest and pinch the fold.

how to tie a bow tie
7. This is the trickiest part and the key to your success. Push the pinched end (A) through the loop behind B. You may have to practice this step a few times until you get it right.

how to tie a bow tie

8. Pull on the folded parts of the bow to tighten.

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9. Adjust until balanced on both sides. Don’t worry if both parts aren’t perfectly aligned.

how to tie a bow tie


10. Celebrate! You’ve successfully tied a bow tie.

how to tie a bow tie

If you’re still having trouble, watch this  video from It helped me to learn fast:

P.S. – One of my Twitter followers suggested practicing by tying the tie around your leg.

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Frederick J. Goodall Editor-in-Chief

Frederick J. Goodall is the Editor-in-Chief of Mocha Man Style, media spokesperson, event host, photographer, and a top social media influencer in Houston, TX. He enjoys traveling, listening to live bands, and spending time with his kids.